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Okay, I am planning on creating another myspace account, but going on as this hot chick and adding my best friend to this account. I want to trick my best friend into thinking that one of his new friends found a girl for him and make him feel very happy. Then I will say the nastiest and meanest stuff to him on this account and make him think that this new friend hates him too. I do not approve of this new friend and I believe he is trying to turn my best friend against me so I want to break them apart so that me and my best friend can remain friends!

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first of all let me say that you are not split in two. what you are describing is a natural defense mechanism to avoid being hurt that your "friend" wants to hang around with other people. i understand it hurts you that your friend is calling you names and confusing you about your friendship. "popping pills" is no way to handle any situation. this is a poor coping strategy and unless you learn the proper way to handle your emotions you will certainly cause bigger and worse problems for yourself. as far as the myspace page goes..... Is it really worth all that time and effort and manipulation just to project your feelings onto someone for hurting you? if you really want to be friends with this person, manipulating their emotions will only make them likely to not trust you or want to even be around you. think long and hard before making any rash decisions. good luck.

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umm i dont get it. so you are tricking your bff so you will not be friends or are you not trickimg your bf

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That is probably v interesting but i just cant be bothered to read these looooooong epistles why not precis the thing

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The MySpace idea is not a good one. Tricks will not bring your friend back.

Even the closest of relationships sometimes break apart for a while. Your friend needs to find things out for himself. Allow him to do this. You can't control or trick him and it is a bad habit to start. It is not a solution.

Be you! Be real! Be flexible!