What would you do?

I've been dating a guy for a while now who was reallly stand off-ish in the beginning. I broke up with him after a few months because he was so hot and cold. When I had plans to go on a date with someone knew he wanted me back and started really opening up and being more affectionate. Now things are so much different and better but I am so skeptical of his 180 degree change that I find myself analyzing and having a hard time trusting him. I even check his myspace sometimes and feel aweful about it...but I recently saw that he left a couple comments on this girls page, one of those girls who has half naked pics of herself with hundreds of myspace friends that are strangers leaving comments about how hot she is. She didn't say anything back to him, but it made me feel like crap and I can't say anything since I shouldn't have been snooping in the first place. What can I do about this? Am I being paranoid? I want to trust him but can't seem to get out of my head the way we started off!

What would you do?

Trust is a huge component in a long-lasting relationship. If you can't trust him, you two can't be together. If it bothers you, talk to him. Tell him that you're finding it hard to trust him because of past experiences. If he blows it off, it's clearly not a priority of his.

What would you do?

Dear i dont know much more abt ur story but one thing i can give advice it.. just analyze think twice thrice and more and take decision thats it.. becoz if u loose him and later u realized he was best then it will create a problem for u only ok good luck

What would you do?

run

What would you do?

I wouldn't worry about the myspace girl; if she's one of those nasty girls who befriends everyone so she can feel better about herself, he's not going to get anywhere with her. Consider it akin to looking at porn or going to strip clubs (two very common and relatively harmless things).

Until you can trust him, your relationship is not going to work out. Ever. You either need to start to trust him or break it off. If you want to be with him, start talking to him instead of sneaking around behind his back. If he won't talk to you or listen to what you have to say, he's definitely not worth it. Communication is key.

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Just keepa an eye out, don't be on his case all the time.All men are goign to do that even if they hava a gf it's how they work.lol.Just if it gets bad confront him about it and see what he says.Follow your instincs but remember you don't want to lose a possibly great relationship. YES it was wrong to snoop in his things in a realationship there should be trust, if you feel as if you don't trust him then talk to him about it.

Good luck :)

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look u saw for ure self thats hie interested n another on my space,,his treated u wierd n the past,wise uyp if ure not happy,u find someone who wants to only love u,,win the trust is gone,its gone,lifes to short ,to cry over someone who is looking to hook up with someone on my space,,,dont feel guilty,at least u no the truth.

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thats EXACTLY what the problem with me and my bf was at the beginning and we used to get in fights all the time about it becuz i keep thinking hes a liar and what not bcuz of how he did act hes totally grew up and changed his mind and finally realized what is was like without and and that he didnt want that....i think you are just being paranoid just like i was...things ar great for us =) remember that..