My boyfriend and I are basically engaged and he has been lying to me about a girl that is "just

I'm pretty sure that he as stopped talking to her, but I was out of town for the whole summer and he hung out with this girl. He assured me that they were just friends. He said that was all, never any feelings towards eachother. So of course I didn't mind them going out to bars together. Recently, I tried to add her on myspace and she flipped. She had huge issues with me and told him that if he was talking to her less because of me she would "take care of it"

So I decided to read a couple of his myspace messages to her which included talking about "the hot night under the stars in the bed of his truck"

or that short pink skir she wore and he could see everything

and how he could picture her naked in his sheets.

Its in his comments too (which are public) so when I brought it up he said he was just kidding with her and would stop talking to her. I HATE that he's lying about it. Did he cheat on me with her while I was away? Should I consider this fact when he proposes?

My boyfriend and I are basically engaged and he has been lying to me about a girl that is "just a friend"..

Hi,

All the signs are there that he's going to cheat on you. I閳ユ獡 sorry, but it's the reality of the situation. I recommend that you cut off the engagement, otherwise, you'll see many years of this "she's just a friend" excuse, even after you have kids...

Avoid the unnecessary pain...

My boyfriend and I are basically engaged and he has been lying to me about a girl that is "just a friend"..

I wouldn't wait for him to propose. He's been lying to you, and will probably continue lying to you in the future. It's time to move on.

My boyfriend and I are basically engaged and he has been lying to me about a girl that is "just a friend"..

And your still thinking of going any farther with him? Why when trust is already gone?

My boyfriend and I are basically engaged and he has been lying to me about a girl that is "just a friend"..

im afraid he did.i would get rid of him asap.it will save you lots of heartbreak. iw as engaged to a man who i found out was cheating on me and i found out 2 months before my wedding.it was completly heartbreaking not to mention i lost alot of money.

My boyfriend and I are basically engaged and he has been lying to me about a girl that is "just a friend"..

Yes, sorry he did. He would not be making those comments if he hadn't. Now there is a saying when people say something joking they really mean what they say. So, yes I would not only not say yes when he asks I would tell him why.

He cheated and has lied to you about it. And continues to lie. That is not a good thing to start a relationship on.....

My boyfriend and I are basically engaged and he has been lying to me about a girl that is "just a friend"..

Dump him right now! He is playing you, and if he proposes and you get married, he will continue to cheat and be dishonest. Do NOT stay with this man! Please!

You deserve so much better and you should not have to fight like this for your man. Find a guy who loves and appreciates YOU.

Good luck 閳?br>My boyfriend and I are basically engaged and he has been lying to me about a girl that is "just a friend"..

ONCE A CHEATER ALWAiiZ A CHEATER.... TAKE THAT iNTO DEEP THOUGHT THEN RECONSiDER MARRYiNG THE MAN!!!!

My boyfriend and I are basically engaged and he has been lying to me about a girl that is "just a friend"..

seriously? you're actually still considering marrying this jerk? of course he cheated on you - you don't "kid" about stuff like that with anyone who's just a friend. i know it hurts, but you've gotta try to move on.

My boyfriend and I are basically engaged and he has been lying to me about a girl that is "just a friend"..

Based on what you've mentioned, there are definitely RED FLAGS raised.

It's not advisable to pursue the relationship any further when TRUST is already an issue.

My advice: Get to know him a lot more thoroughly before you even consider getting engaged.

Good luck!

My boyfriend and I are basically engaged and he has been lying to me about a girl that is "just a friend"..

Leave him now. There is no trust there if he is not telling the truth now.

My boyfriend and I are basically engaged and he has been lying to me about a girl that is "just a friend"..

Yea, looks like he cheated on you and doesn't even respect you enough to tell you. You deserve betteer, so hit the "delete" button on this guy.

My boyfriend and I are basically engaged and he has been lying to me about a girl that is "just a friend"..

look a man is going to be a man... I understand that you like him or maybe even love him but don't be a fool for anybody... maybe he had a fling or maybe he like her.... you can't change that.... If he really love you than time will tell.... if u have any more interactions with her about him talking to her or seeing her let him go...... you deserve more....

My boyfriend and I are basically engaged and he has been lying to me about a girl that is "just a friend"..

you are "basically engaged", but he had not proposed?? That's sorta like being "a little bit pregnant".

My boyfriend and I are basically engaged and he has been lying to me about a girl that is "just a friend"..

I would run, RUN run Run! break it off and let her become the one being cheated on. There are a lot of good guys out there, don't put up with that crap, because you will have a horrible marriage. Run!

My boyfriend and I are basically engaged and he has been lying to me about a girl that is "just a friend"..

Apparently you are not engaged if he hasn't proposed yet. The guy cheated. Now it's up to you if you want to put up with his behavior or find another boyfriend.

My boyfriend and I are basically engaged and he has been lying to me about a girl that is "just a friend"..

It is clear that the girl wants your guy. And your guy is having an affair.

My boyfriend and I are basically engaged and he has been lying to me about a girl that is "just a friend"..

BREAK UP WITH HIS CHEATING LYING ***!

My boyfriend and I are basically engaged and he has been lying to me about a girl that is "just a friend"..

There's a saying ... " where there's smoke, there is fire".

And there seems to be A LOT of smoke coming from those 2.

The talk between the 2 of them is intimate -- and on a level which simple friends usually don't use. ALSO - when she flipped out just because you wanted to add her to my space .. combined with the "take care of it" bit .. sure seems to add up to more than simple friendship .. but seems to be a relationship with fire in it.

You would probably be wise to consider this as "red - flags" alerting you to what can, and could, go on!!

Think about it this way ... if it were YOU talking to another guy just like they are talking %26amp; acting with each other ... what do you think would be going on between you and the other guy? .. a simple friendship?

You may need to think on this a long time. You will have more answers come to you when you can get over being so upset.

My boyfriend and I are basically engaged and he has been lying to me about a girl that is "just a friend"..

Yelp!

My boyfriend and I are basically engaged and he has been lying to me about a girl that is "just a friend"..

Sounds like a guy you dont need. Move on. Period.