I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

i went to a soccer game one night, with people not from my school. this girl came up to me and said, "my brother thinks you're hot, and wanted me to give you his myspace. he's too much of a chicken to tell you himself." and she gave me a piece of paper with a link and walked away. i didn't even know who he was. i went back home and added him, and he's REALLY REALLY REALLY attractive. he talked to me a little at first, and commented my pictures about how "gorgeous" i am and stuff. i get that a lot, not to be vain or anything. he asked for my screen name. i am only 14 years old, and a freshman. he is a 17 year old junior. BUT i told him i'm a 15 year old sophomore because i was afraid he'd think freshman are lame. he's kind of a little bit of a pervert, but all guys guys his age are so i'm not worried. he wants to hang out at the mall this weekend, and he just asked me on aim "do you kiss on the first date??"

i'm kind of nervous. how do i act? what should i say? what should i doooo?

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

To be honest, you're too young and he's too old to be dating a freshman.

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

You are way too young. And you could possible get tooken advantage of. And next year when he is 18 years, he will get in a lot of trouble. Report It

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

Tell him yes....

And kiss him..

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

cute.....

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

just go and act normal! girls just don't geddit....

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

Why would a 17y/o boy be intrested in a 14 y/o girl? He sounds like a future child molester to me.

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

Ahh, to be young and immature. I was that age once.

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

OK, I think it is nice that he wants to go out to the mall, a mall is a public place where you guys can get to know each other, tell him that you don't kiss on first dates, make him wait and appreciate it when the time comes, take it slowly and enjoy the nice friendship or relationship that might come out of it, good luck girl and try not to lie about anything else.

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

Don't get pregnant. That's my advice.

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

WELL DO YOU?????????

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

You need to be honest with him. If he thinks you are 'lame' he is not for you. No matter how attractive this dude is. You need to be honest.

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

quit talking to him

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

You've asked this so many times. My advice is not to meet strange boys alone at the mall. It's not safe, he's not from your school, you don't know him, and none of your friends know him. Meeting him is not smart.

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

Unless you know who this guy really is, just ignore him. His whole profile could be fake, and you could be setting yourself up for trouble.

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

You are contradicting yourself. You say "he's kind of a little bit of a pervert, but all guys guys his age are so i'm not worried."

Then you say "i'm kind of nervous. how do i act? what should i say? what should i doooo?"

Hes too old for you. If my son whos about to be 17 started dating a 14 yr old, Id have a problem with that.

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

well a little kiss would go great. but just be yourself! but to be honest i think he is a little to old for you but if you're happy and trust him then you'll be fine.

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

tell him you dont kiss on the first day and please respect that...

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

Run !!!! You are too young for this pervert and will regret your lying later on . Stick with boys your own age for now and slow down !!!

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

um, first of all, you shouldn't even be telling him a lie about your age, who cares if you were 14 or not. Second of all, you're only 14 :) you're too young to even be thinking of dating guys, he's 17 he'll soon to be going off to college, so I say you should concentrate on your school work first before going out with guys.

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

If this guy likes u then he likes u for who u r. Tell him that u r a freshman. Cos if he finds out another way, he'll think u r a liar and might break the relationship that u might develop. Im a freshman 2.... If he backs out cos u r a freshman then u shud be thankful that u told him and realized what a jerk he was.....GOOD LUCK!!!!!

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

go! if it does not work and he thinks your age is lame well it is not like u can have a say in the matter.. Then just dump him

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

Congrats!

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

Girl!... does you parents know about this?... you better stay home...

you are right about that....Most pervert guys are shy... he will do his pervertive act when you guys are alone... again, STAY HOME

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

u should really just tell him the truth...if he really likes u he will still go on a date w/ u.....then u will really no if he is a perv or not! lol if u tell him the truth, it should make him like u more b/c u are honest!!!!!

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

Dont do anything you arent comfortable with, and be careful ok?? Bring a friend with you, they dont have to be right there the whole time but they can be looking out for you...First you will have to tell him that you lied about your age...a relationship based on deception will never work

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

If you like him... go on girl.

if you think your rushing it, take your time and say no.

we dont need drama.

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

Don't kiss him, one thing about guys that are older is that they are 1. either genuinely interested or 2. they only want you because you are "fresh-meat" not meaning a freshman but that you are inexperienced and usually still a virgin= tight p****. so you need to find out whether he wants YOU or your body or a combination of the the two. haha k im a sophmore that really is 15 and my boyfriend is 17 turning 18 on the 1st, and we've been together for a long time. we didnt do anything for a while and it worked out really well. We got to know eachother before we did anything so we had a stronger connection. My advice, don't kiss on the first date, get to know him, try to see what he's like. Yes guys are pervs but theres also those pervs who are only after one thing. Watch his manerisms, how he interacts with you, are his hands ALL OVER you? or is he a little timid and asking you questions about yourself? does he try to kiss you or give you little half smiles? or does he genuinely listen to you and seem interested? Just dont kiss on the first date, keep him wanting more. It'll make you more interesting and help you figure him out a lot easier. and if the date goes really well, a little kiss on the cheek wont hurt ;) good luck babe

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

men at that age are insecure u should see if he can be responsible enough to give u space if he knows u r 14 he might try and take advantage of ur body so keep ur wits about u and dont think that just because he is attractive online hes attractive offline i dont know him so i cant say anything else except he might be a good person thats y i said give him a chance

hope my advice helps ! :)

Dont let him put his hands all over your body

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

gurl its all up to you what do you think, i think hes just trying to hit it. you said he said that you are hot right, if i had my sister go and do that i would have said your beautiful, then he asked you do you kiss on the first date, we all know what kissing can lead up to, juss watch out cause there are guys like that, im a guy myself and all my friends are like that. watch yourself!!!

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

FIRST.. be honest with him.. tell him that you fibbed a lil and that you're actually 14 years old. If he doesn't have a problem with it, and still asked to meet you at the mall.. go for it! My boyfriend is 3 years older than me, and things are great!!! As for the kiss on the first date.. if it feels right.. and in the moment.. go for it!! I hope this helps!!! :)

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

since ur gonna go to the mall with him ((be seriously careful!!!)) hang out and talk and get to know him- and if he's to pushy i rather stay away- so yea- hope this helps!!!

Good Luck!!!

I need some HONEST, REAL boy advice! don't come here if you dont want to take me seriously.?

listen kid.......... just say to him "i don't kiss on the first date, but may be on the second date" intrigue him !