Guys!!! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

ok, i hope yall know that yall are SOOOOOO confusing!!!!!!!! well, i really like this guy because he is like drop dead hot and i get the chills averytime i look at him.... i ALWAYS catch him staring at me!!! but everytime i try to talk to him hes like whatev and it totally confusing cuz like onetime we were talking on myspace and we both admitted we thought eachother was really hot, but after that he like never talked to me.... he is always really gross in class like he will say SUPER preverted things about this girl in our class that is really popular even though she is fat but guys know she is easy, so he was like talking about her "vajj" ina very inapropriate way and that night i messaged him on myspace and was like "no offense but ur really gross, never mind u probly take that as a compliment" and he was like "do u really think i am a bad kid?" and i was like "ya kinda i mean averyone hears the stuff u say in class" and he was like "im really trying to change!" was that a bad move

Guys!!! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Yes that was a bad move.

You didn't have to tell that straight to him, lol.

Let him talk about how what he wants to...

Guys!!! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

That last part wasn't. That means he likes you. He's going to change for you. Boys are dumb; they can't help saying things like that about girls. If you like him, go for him.

Guys!!! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

No body likes being made to look in a mirror and see how others see them. If he meant it about trying to change, then he'd stop his act in school and be like you see him. Guess the truth hurt and he's not talking to you because of it.

Guys!!! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

He sounds like a long-term thing. If that's what you want, go for it.

Guys!!! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

i am a boy and i know i wont ever tell a girl that i love her except if i am sure that she also love me to make him know that u love him try always to talk to him AND TOUCHING HIM THIS IS VERY IMPORTANAT and if u did this i am sure he will say 2 u thst he loves u

Guys!!! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

I liked how you told him what you thought about his behavior. That was not a bad move at all. Guys like girls who are confident enough to talk straight to them.

There's two observations can be made here:

-he's interested in you,

-he's not going to change.

Well, the thing is that being interested in you doesn't mean he is a good guy. Girls need to get that. So you were hoping he liked you. I can say pretty sure he does. But we can't be sure that he isn't also interested in another girl as well. I think you should find out if you are the ONLY girl he is saying this too, and messaging on a regular basis. The best way is get the answer through the back door, classmates you can trust and are close to him. If he's only interested in you, go for it and tell him you like him.

BUT please don't buy into that "i'm really trying to change" thing. All the guys I dated said that one time or another. One even stopped smoking completely for me, but was only for 2 months and he became himself again. This notion that girls have that attractive guys must be good somewhere in there is totally wrong. So just make sure you ask yourself whether you can handle this kind of behavior from him. If you can't, let you. If he's really trying to change, all he has to do is shut up.

Believe me, you'll see it pretty obviously if that happens.