boyfriend of one month has been leaving comments on another girls myspace page saying stuff like "cute ***" and "hot ***" and "the only thing i missed out on was hanging out with your cute ***"! should i not think nothing of it or send her a message and tell her that HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND which is me! and ask her if she has some interest in him...cause she leaves him comments too! or should i just tell him to shape up or ship out if he's going to be like that.? thanks yall! oh and heres a pic of her and me...which one would you rather be with? im the girl in the first pic and she's the girl in the second pic.. thanks yall :)
http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y198/08...
http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y198/08...
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Honestly I wouldn't say anything to her, it's your boyfriend that I would talk to.
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One month may seem like a long time, but if he's not cheating,. having flirtateous comments may not be so bad. Let him chit chat.
If he takes it to the next level, then dump his sorry ****. You are waaaay cuter anyway.
:)
Good luck!
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If you want you can leave him and find some1 hooter on myspace
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Tell him to stop or sling his hook. I would rather be with you than her.
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screw him, dump him, he sounds like a peice of jerk trash that needs tossing out.
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you should prob. not worry about it. its just flirting, its nothing big, if he steps it up to cheating than u say something. If u say something now it will seem clingy and push him away.
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Leave your boyfriend your wayyyy too hot for a jerk like that
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He is definitely not considerate or respectful of you feelings. Do you really want to be with a guy who you know is doing all these things that makes you feel bad because I promise you that their are better guys out there that will treat you better!!!
I answered your other question about the pics....
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honestly i would like to be width you...she seems bitchy...your pic seems soft though
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yep leave!! you look better
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Actually you need to talk to your boyfriend, not her. And you would be my pick.
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Sounds to me like your boyfriend likes 'playing the field'. That is no way to treat a girlfriend. You should talk to him and ask him how many girls does he need to make him happy and if he says more than one then you should leave him.
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If you are looking for a knee jerk reaction, go kick your boyfriend where it counts and tell him, "Enjoy your life with that tramp."
Now that the funny response is out of the way, if you want to be a mature adult, you go sit down with your boyfriend and have a reasonable conversation with him about it. Tell him you don't approve of him chatting up girls like that in real life or on the internet. If he appologizes for his behavior, and stops this activity, then move on with your life together.
If he makes excuses or tries to turn it around on you, then tell him you don't think your relationship is going to work. Explain that since he is not mature enough to handle a real life girl, he can go have fun with his internet one. If you take this course of action, dump him, stick with it, and move on with your life.
What you should not do is involve this other woman in some petty internet spat. He's the one messing up, so put it squarely on him to fix it or go away.
If you both work through this issue and decide to stay together, don't let him get away with it another time. Don't fight with him about it. Don't talk and give him the option to fix it again. Just walk out of his life and leave him in the dark.
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