i went to a soccer game one night, with people not from my school. this girl came up to me and said, "my brother thinks you're hot, and wanted me to give you his myspace. he's too much of a chicken to tell you himself." and she gave me a piece of paper with a link and walked away. i didn't even know who he was. i went back home and added him, and he's REALLY REALLY REALLY attractive. he talked to me a little at first, and commented my pictures about how "gorgeous" i am and stuff. i get that a lot, not to be vain or anything. he asked for my screen name. i am only 14 years old, and a freshman. he is a 17 year old junior. BUT i told him i'm a 15 year old sophomore because i was afraid he'd think freshman are lame. he's kind of a little bit of a pervert, but all guys guys his age are so i'm not worried. he wants to hang out at the mall this weekend, and he just asked me on aim "do you kiss on the first date??"
i'm kind of nervous. how do i act? what should i say? what should i doooo?
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Well first off you should stop lying about your age, and be very careful about hanging out with older guys that you believe are perverted.
What you are doing is a recipe for trouble.
He is one year off being an adult, you are barely a teenager. Be very careful, and try to hang out with people your own age.
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tell him to double date. have backup. and good luck!
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Be yourself.
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don't let him take advantage of you. He might just be after certain things....
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becareful i am twenty and wasnt 17 too long ago he wants to get in them dralls.as you said alot of guys are like that at that age because they are going through a hormone thing. becareful
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i would avoid him completely. he sounds like a creep who only wants to get into your pants. TRUST ME.
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Well first off, if you don't feel comfortable going then don't go. No guy is worth it! If you feel like all he wants to do is get in your pants, then you don't need to go. Remember,only you can make you do something.
Good Luck and God Bless!!
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Just be yourself, and let everything happen naturally.
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I think you are pretty young to be with this guy right now. In a few years it wouldn't be as big of a problem. You should tell him the truth about your age though, it will make him really mad some day when he finds out you lied. Better to tell him sooner than later.
~Kyle
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When you're able to answer those questions yourself, you will be mature enough to date. Until then, back to your studies, please.
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Are you sure its him and not someone playing you a joke? Make sure its him and if its him then go for it if you like him. Just be yourself. And of course you need to look good!
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go to the mall...its a public place nothing can go wrong...don't go with him anywhere alone though until you really know hime. and tell him the truth about your age. hes going to think you are more lame when he finds out that you lied about it!
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I don't think this is a situation you should get into. You know he's a pervert, you lied about your age and grade, and he's already asking how far you'll go sexually. You shouldn't meet strange boys who are not even from your school -- it's not smart.
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first of all why did you lie about your age.. because any relationship that begins on a lie is doomed. and at 14 and 17 this guy and you have nothing in common except your body.... and he wants it.
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act like yourself and dont let him take advantage of you, and no not all guys who want to date freshman are perverted. well some people may think i am but i have a HUGE crush on this freshman girl, its not one where i just want to "do" stuff with her, i want to have a real relationship. but do not let him take advantage of you its not worth it in the long run
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Girl this sounds like trouble waiting to happen...any guy who really likes you would be respectful and wouldnt ask questions like that....sorry girl but guys just want a piece of a$$
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just talk to him!
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This guy seems like a LOSER!!! If a guy A) Doesn't give you the time of day to give his pathetic MySpace page link himself... Then he doesn't think much of you. B) Any guy who hides behind MySpace is totally shady!
Don't get me wrong I am addicted to myspace and love it but would be totally offended if someone had to be connected to me through it "Romantically" Have a little more self respect... Hot guys come and go..
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He will be 18 soon and be in prison for dating you so you have nothing to worry about. He should know better then to go out with a 14 or 15 year old anyways. And i'd say his intentions are to get you in the sack before he is 18, then dump you anyway so dont waste your time, ok?
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out for the holidays
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Well, just take it easy, he might want to go faster than you are ready for since he is 17 and you are 14. But I dont think lying to him was a good frst step. you should have just told him you were 14, I am sure it would have not made a difference.
It is normal to be nervous no a first date, but dont worry, you will know what to do. A kiss on the first date is good, but if he is going straight to the honey pot, girl leave him in the dust. He may be a nice guy and treat you genuinely nice, but if he doesnt, dont worry girl, there are plently of ncie guys out there.
So just take it easy and becareful, you have no idea who he is.
I am not trying ot scare you are anything, but just incase you get carried away remeber HPV is not prevented by wearing a condom. It is the only std that is not protectable. It is said that 80% of amercians get it at one point in their life.
Just take care of yourself and remeber to have fun with this guy. If he is not into what you are into, just forget him :)
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First he's gonna say you should've never lied to him and can't work about the age difference, and then his gonna say there's no way that u two can be together cause your a freshman and then his gonna yell a lot but then it will all be over and remember that if he gets really mad start crying... works every time...
:))) I'm kidding, he won't say a thing, u lied only with 1 year is not like u told you're 17 too ... so don't worry :)
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You see little one, you are on a public forum so anyone can come here and answer you seriously or not. Lying is not the way to start off a relationship! You are to young for him and you know it or you wouldn't have lied! You are to young to judge if his perversion is OK or not. You will get in trouble with your parents too! You are to young to have a boyfriend and be dating. Your not knowing how to act should tell you, that you aren't ready yet!! Give it another couple years when you are more mature and can handle situations better. Don't rush growing up, it will only lead to trouble!
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Yeeeeah.Ignoring the last two idiots,just be yourself,and don't kiss him on the first date.If a dude knows that you do that,it'll open a window for him.Just be nice,be yourself,and put the physical stuff aside till later.Lose him if he's a jerk.Not all of us guys are jerks,so don't be in rush to get down with the first 'hot' one you see.Looks aren't everything.Personality and if he respects for more than a sex object are far more important.
So in short,just be yourself and wait on the physical stuff till later.
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whatever any of us writes will be forgotten on the day that you two date, because you will be so nervous you will forget, but here is some advice anyway just go with the flow of things and don't worry he will be nervous too, as far as kissing and making out is concerned, do not do anything you are uncomfortable with
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Seriously, you should be flattered and leave it at that. You are only 14 years old and he is 17.He could get into a great deal of trouble dating someone your age. And he only has one thing in mind, and you should not be doing what he has in mind.You are obviously an attractive young lady, and you have plenty of time, trust me, you are going to have a great deal of offers coming your way as you get older. Don't be stupid and do something you will regret for a very long time. Good luck and God bless****
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i disagree w/ the others. i say go w/ him and explain the age thing, but i don't think he'll mind. my friend is going out w/ my bf's brother who's a junior (me, my bf, and my friend are all freshman too) there are lots of relationships like that @ my school and even freshmen and seniors too. go 4 it girl and jus tact like urself, he should like u just fine.
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Okay I was 15 when I met my 23 yr old boyfriend. I didn't even know him at first when I met him or that we were even going to get to know each other but when asked my age I told him I was 16. So when I told him my real age he understood. Because he did genuinely care about me. So I think you need to tell him the truth and if he understands than he cares but if he doesn't and just throws you to the side than he was just after you to get in your pants. Be careful though I would hate for anyone to get hurt like I did. Good Luck. I hope it turns out the way you want it.
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Ok you said he is 17 and a little bit of a pervert. Well that tells you he is only after one thing. When i was 17 i went on a date with a guy i hardley even knew he ended up taking me to his house and the night was so horrifying. I didn't think i was going to make it out alive. I'm not trying to scare you but you never know what could happen. I can't say what happen to me that night but you probably can figure what happened . He's still in prison. Just watch out and be extra safe and please don't do anything you don't want to do.
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First, never start off lying, that will only get you in trouble in the long run...Second, most boys are out for one thing, and one thing only...When he asked you if you kiss on the first date...That should have been your cue to leave him alone, why would he not just ask what your into, music, movies, etc...Get my drift...Have Respect, and certainly....Get Respect....Be Careful with this one...
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