I MADE A MISTAKE; i'm a freshman, he's a junior, HELP!?

my best friend (mark) is good friends with all these people in a band. one of those people in the band are named John. Mark called me with John on the other line. We talked for a while, and Mark showed John my myspace. Apparently, he thinks I am "insanely hot" and was talking to Mark about how bad he wants to "bone me." I was joking around on the phone and told John I'd give him a lapdance if he gave me and some friends a ride to the movies. So i probably led him on or something. Because I don't do things like that. Mark is having a party on Saturday and the whole band is going to be there. I'm afraid this guy John is going to try something on me and I'm not sure how to handle this. I've heard some bad things about John also, that he's an alcoholic and has a bad home-life. I know the typical answer is to "not go" to the party but I'm going to eventually meet this guy John somewhere because he's friends with a lot of people I know, and I AM going to the party. what do i do?

I MADE A MISTAKE; i'm a freshman, he's a junior, HELP!?

You shouldn't have teased him like that. But if you go to the party or meet him or whatever, then act completely disinterested. If he brings up the lap dance thing, tell him you were completely kidding.

I MADE A MISTAKE; i'm a freshman, he's a junior, HELP!?

stop acting your age:) silly girl... dug your own hole.

I MADE A MISTAKE; i'm a freshman, he's a junior, HELP!?

one thing have your gurls with u....and your best friend too. they should stop something if something happens what are friends for?

I MADE A MISTAKE; i'm a freshman, he's a junior, HELP!?

it happens dont worry and calm down

I MADE A MISTAKE; i'm a freshman, he's a junior, HELP!?

youve already done the bet so jus bring a condom and birth control or bring pepper spray for if he tries anything

I MADE A MISTAKE; i'm a freshman, he's a junior, HELP!?

make him wear a condom. happy boning