Should i break up with him?

ok my bf ryan %26amp; i have been 2gether 4 almost 2mos. but he likes my bff nikki more than me. now i dnot no wat 2 do. he left her comment on myspace saying she is hot and sexy. then she had something like dont hold my hand if u r gonna let go........and he was like ill hold on for ever i promise. but he says he loves me 2. he told my sister that he likes me but likes nikki more. now im hurt and wanna die.

ps we r both 13

help me

it might save my life

Should i break up with him?

Ok baby girl, he doesn't deserve you. Drop his *** like a hot potato!! And dont worry when things dont work out between them he will come crawling back to you...they always do! :)

Should i break up with him?

Break up with him, he's being immature and selfish, and SO IS YOUR FRIEND! And I reccomend losing the myspace, it'll save you a lot of social stress.

Should i break up with him?

dump the loser and find someone better

Should i break up with him?

Dump his ***.

Should i break up with him?

hes an ***. you deserve better.you have the rest of your life to find a nicer guy

Should i break up with him?

Yes, I would break up with him. He sounds immature and a loser if he is commenting on your friend like that. Watch out for her too, I hope she doesn't stab you in the back.

Should i break up with him?

Break up with him belive me i know boys like him from experience so not to be harsh but your friend is kinda messed up dont you think?a man should never do that to his girl EVER

Should i break up with him?

im 13 also. this **** happens all the time. if shes really ur BFF then she wouldnt be doing this kinda stuff with ur boyfriend... id talk to ur friend about it and see wats going on... if she tells u their doing things behind ur back, then you should break up with him.

Should i break up with him?

your only 13....you dont know what love is, your hella dumb......why does everyone trip off of myspace?

Should i break up with him?

You should definitely break up with him. He sounds like a jerk. Why would you want to be with a jerk? You should find yourself a new boyfriend. Also, what's up with your friend, Nikki? She shouldn't be doing that to you. Friends come first.

Should i break up with him?

if u need to ask then you should probably go with the gut feeling and dump his ***

u are 13 there will be plenty more in your life to come.

Should i break up with him?

get rid of him!

Should i break up with him?

if nikki is a tru friend, she wouldn't b tellin this bac 2 ur current bf. %26amp; y is ur lozer bf tellin ur BFF that he Loves her %26amp; stuff?!?! you deserve bttr!

ps i am 12...dont have a lozer bf like i did!

Should i break up with him?

break up! its not the end of the world, you are both 13 and have a long life ahead of you and many more relationships, you don't need him.

Should i break up with him?

sweety you r still very young and im sure it wont be the first time a guy breaks your heart if you come to be some ones second then you do not need them and if your friend is stupid enough to flirt then i wouldnt call her a friend. friends dont hurt their friends. get rid of the dummy and show him you can do a whole lot better because he must not know your worth.

Should i break up with him?

sorry, maybe you should move on and find another guy that will care and love you more.

Should i break up with him?

i think u should dump him he is not going to be as true to u if he likes someone else better

Should i break up with him?

At 13 your not mature enough to even be in these situations and your parents shouldn't allow you to be exclusive with one person. Everything is too dramatic and you can't handle the emotions.

Anyways, so you want to like someone that likes someone else better. Already your learning what poor self-esteem is and also that your not ready for something like this.

You need to move on. He's using you like most young guys do. He likes you because you worship him, and he likes the other girl because she' super pretty. Your learning a tough lesson at a young age. Start hanging out in groups and don't get so caught up in this. Eventually you'll forget this.

In the future you'll find a guy that treats you right and cares for you. He's too young to be sensitive and he's hurt you, but don't let him do it anymore. Your better than that, and deserve more than that.

P.S. I hope your not using their real names. Not smart in todays internet world. Good luck.

Should i break up with him?

bf + bff + u = ht 3some

Should i break up with him?

hold on gurl dont die cause of a guy!! at 1st I wanted to die like you cause of my ex but just a few days ago some other guy came into my life and hes been great to me and were not even going out and he treats me better!! you dont need him! hes stupid for leaving you for her.. but if he likes her more theres nothing you can do to change that. its life so I say forget him and move on! find someone better

Should i break up with him?

Learn now, my dear...men never stop looking...they're dirty, insatiable, self-centered pigs...take this time to learn, to grow stronger, more confident...you must be strong and intellegent to survive this world, especially the horrible things people throw at you or life just sends your way...learn all you can about men, their basic traits, their weaknessess....study them, and use it to your advantage...be safe!

Should i break up with him?

OK, first of all, people say love can come at any age. I guess that's true. But to me I think 13 is a little young. I don't think you can fully understand love at that age. And I knew that. I didn't see why people would date someone if they knew they wouldn't be with them for the rest of their life. That's why I waited till I was almost 17 (which some people say that's still to young) because I would know exactly what love was. So... conclusion... brake up with him... don't date for a while until you know that you actually truly love someone. Don't just jump right back into dating.

Should i break up with him?

First off you are 13, he doesnt love you, he doesnt know what love is. Dont let your dreams be crushed i know when you are in the moment it seems like nothing else matters but life will go on and Im sure you will find love someday. Dont get caught up in guy yet, they are far too immature. Keep your head up and dont do anything stupid.

Should i break up with him?

Okay, at the age of 13 you have to realize that there is a lot more of more important life ahead of you. When you get out of school and I mean college - not just H.S. you are going to be able to meet someone who is hopefully mature and responsible. You can't expect a 13 yr old BOY to be faithful. Did you really think you were going to marry him and ride off in a white chariot togethe. Wake up honey, you are having fun right now. Play the field, because after your married it will be too late. You don't want to make your future husband feel the same way that you feel right now, do you?

Should i break up with him?

im going through the same thing right now! if he loves you like he says he dose he will hold your hand forever and nikki would totally be out of the question!!! well evan though its hard you diserve better! dump him! and i will be hard to see them 2gether but i needs to happen!! if nikki is really your best friend she wouldnt do this to you!!! dump them both!!!!

good luck :)

Should i break up with him?

mmmmmmmmmmmmm...

u better find a new friend n a new bf

COZ THEY'RE 2 Fu*king LOSERsS

AND U REALLY NEED TO GET OVER THEM !!!!

Should i break up with him?

Don't kill yourself take a deep breath I've been threw this trust me it is not fun. You don't know what is gonna happen but if they decide to cheat on you then you find out shes gonna ignore you and hes not gonna care. Dump him and let her know you can't be her friend if she does this to you and stick to it find comfort in other friends and even though we probably don't know eachother I'll be praying for you good luck

Should i break up with him?

You ought to let him go. I know it's hard, because you like him. But you are only 13. I know it hurts a lot right now, but soon it'll go away.

Now. About your friend. She's not a good friend, if you ask me. Friends don't flirt with their friend's boyfriends. It just doesn't happen. You need to have a talk with her and let her know how you feel about what she's been saying to him.

Your boyfriend doesn't know about love. Neither do you. You and him are way too young to understand what love is.

Let him go. Talk to your friend. And then...go chill with some of your friends and have a good time being single for a while. Concentrate on other things until the pain goes away.

13 is young. Boys will be round forever. Have high standards, and don't settle for whoever is round. You deserve the best.

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You are very young. You are just starting to feel new emotions and they are very powerful - but you have let your brain control you.

You know nothing about life at 13. You just have very powerful emotions.

There are so many different things in the world beside the opposite sex. And there are a lot of guys out there. Do you really think that in the united states ryan is the only guy for you? there are over 100 million to choose from? He just happens to live near you and attend your school.

There is so much more. I lived in Italy and had a wonderful romance with a beautiful Italian girl on a Tuscan wine estate for a year. I lived in New York City for a while and had a lot of girlfriends.

They were all great and fun, and I loved them all, but we all moved on.

You sound like a wonderful girl, and ryan really has not done anything wrong. There are many other guys you could date, but really try to get good grades and go to college because the best girls and the most educated girls get the best guys in the future.

You will look at ryan and those strong emotions and laugh later. I read my ex-girlfriends notes about some guy that she dated in 8th and 9th grade and it is so silly ("Edwin").

It is good to have real emotions, so many people dont, just get a handle on them. Study, study, study.

Should i break up with him?

"It might save my life" is not something to joke about. You've got plenty of time ahead of you.

Tip #1: Be cautious here. You opened up yourself for a whole lot of criticism by posting this in such a public space. It sounds like you and your friends have some maturing to do, which can only occur through experience, and there are plenty of people who answer questions here that do not show compassion or empathy for certain behaviors.

Tip #2: Have a frank discussion, without any insults, name calling or finger pointing, with your BF.

The best relationships are based on non-selfish intentions. That's applicable to you and your BF, and your BFF.

However, you also have to watch out for yourself. The number one thing I look for in a girl is that she has to like me back. If she doesn't then i don't like her so much because she doesn't meet my first requirement.