Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Please help. I don't know how to tell him to go away nicely.?

I hate that it's come down to this, but I need this guy to leave me alone. He's obsessed with me. He's up at 1:30 in the morning looking at pictures of my myspace commenting them saying I look hot. He's constantly messaging me about random stuff just to talk. I've tried to keep my answers short to end it, but he keeps going. He made up a post and sent it to me of what if's. What if I was his girlfriend, what if I kissed him, what if I asked him out. He's soooo overly obsessed. He's always drawing me random pictures of this cat. He gets me gifts, and I can't give them back saying, "sorry, I don't want this." I don't know how to say it nicely, but he's freaking me out. He's so obsessed. Please help, I don't know how to tell him!



Please help. I don't know how to tell him to go away nicely.?

oh you will when u get good and tired of him.. trust me.



Please help. I don't know how to tell him to go away nicely.?

Tell him he's been making you feel a little uncomfortable, and that you're not interested in a relationship with him.



Please help. I don't know how to tell him to go away nicely.?

He may be someone that you can't be nice to, tell him to leave you alone and do not answer any more texts, emails, phone calls and refuse/return any more gifts. Some guys you just have to be nasty to get them to go away.



Please help. I don't know how to tell him to go away nicely.?

JUST TELL HIM YOUR NOT EVEN INTERESTED IN HIM. And if he really cares about you, he will back off %26amp; if that dos'nt work....BLOCK HIM!



Please help. I don't know how to tell him to go away nicely.?

I've had this many a time and I can understand how annoying and creepy it can be! If you want to tell him to go away nicely then just say something like, "It's really sweet that you say these things to me but I'm afraid I really don't see you in that way. I enjoy your company though and I enjoy your friendship :)"...and if he STILL doesn't get the hint, which is often what happens, especially if they're weird and obsessive, the only way it'll stop is if you block him. You can do this on MSN and Myspace. Once he sees that you're taking action to get him to leave you alone, he should take the hint. Failing all this, (it's happened to me)..a few threats should do the trick..."Leave me the **** alone or my boyfriend will stove your face in" did the trick for me. Mind you, 6 months later I got an out-of-the-blue text message from him saying "Hi Kate, can I come round to your house and drop off some presents I bought for you?" That was SUPER creepy.



Please help. I don't know how to tell him to go away nicely.?

Goodness, sweetie... run away!



[And by running away I mean...] DELETE HIM AND SET YOUR PROFILE ON PRIVATE (if it already isn't.)



This guy IS obsessed... and obsessed guys can be dangerous. If, after deleting him, he still bothers you, you need to tell him flat-out 'LEAVE ME ALONE!' As you can see, a lot of guys just cannot take subtle hints.



Good luck hun!



Please help. I don't know how to tell him to go away nicely.?

Call the police. I'm dead serious because he could easily find out where you live (assuming he doesn't already know) or you could also get a guy to threaten to kick his a$$ if doesn't stop.

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