Why does he have to be like that!?

theres this guy i have classes with hes 15 almost 16. and i'm 14. but we were talking on myspace couple of days ago and he said he liked me he said it this way -"i like gummybears! [youuu]".and i knew he liked me it was so obvious. but at skool lhe doesnt really talk to me, he teases me a lot, and throws stuff at me like parts of an eraser or balls of paper and when he washed his hands he threw some water on me. he teases me that kinda way but hardly talks to me!when we get on myspace he talks to me normally and he says "luvya" and he said "gummybears are hawT" i think he was telling me i was hot because when he told me he liked me he said gummybears too lol.weirdo. i'm also #2 on his myspace. why does he act immature at skool tease me and makes fun of me but online hes all mature and stuff and acts serious! its kinda annoying! we met like 2 weeks ago.

Why does he have to be like that!?

He is just being a young man!

Why does he have to be like that!?

It looks like he is very shy. Ask him why does he act like he doesn't like you when in front of people. Tell him you don't like the way it feels.

Why does he have to be like that!?

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Why does he have to be like that!?

because #1. He's only 16. Guys really don't start acting mature until their mid-twenties and even then they have issues. #2. It's easier to react to something you're reading online than in a face-to-face convo at school. Online, you can't hear his voice shaking because you make him nervous. It's easier #3. He shows you he likes you by teasing you and doing all that stuff...it's stupid but it's foolproof. He likes you.

Why does he have to be like that!?

its easier to speak online/via text cos he doesnt see your face and woouldnt be embarrassed by what hes saying to you. in school, he only teases you but cant say anyting much cos he's shy!! he feels vulnerable saying normal stuff around you. so he does things like teasing to get your attention. :) he does like you. so pls, do go up and talk to him. dont rely too much on communicating via computers/phones. it takes a lot of fun out of the friendship/rlshp. gl :)

Why does he have to be like that!?

Some boys are still pretty immature compared to girls of sometimes a younger age. Its just one of those things.

Just ignore it all.

Why does he have to be like that!?

yeah he likes you, and i think he teases you cuz he thinks its flirty, and he acts immature cuz he's kinda shy in person. but that's my opinion

Why does he have to be like that!?

hmmm...... maybe he dont want a serious relationship rite now and wants to go easy.

Why does he have to be like that!?

He likes you a lot. What he does at school is typical of boys his age. Boys mature at a slower rate than us girls. I've always had luck dating older guys. At your age, I would recommend only going 1-1 1/2 yrs. older than yourself. A whole 2 yrs. difference at your age is a lot. It's ultimately up to you if you want to flirt back at him. Just remember, on the maturity level, he's behind you. Personally, I couldn't put up with it.

Why does he have to be like that!?

that's just the way we guys are. all guys tease girls if they like them enough. its natural. also guys want to try to mislead theyre friends a little bit.

Why does he have to be like that!?

It's obvious that he likes you, no doubt. As for the school, thing maybe he's shy and doesn't want to be confronted by his friends or being made fun of. But you should ask him out, that way you guys can talk and hold hands in public. And he wouldn't be embarrassed.

Why does he have to be like that!?

Because he's young and immature. He doesn't want to lose his "cool guy" image at school. Guys don't want to be labeled "gummybear-whipped" Also this crush might be new to him and guy friends love to bust each others balls.

Next time, he compliments :gummybears" tell him he doesn't have to stay in the closet about his love for gummybears. Get a spine!

Why does he have to be like that!?

Well !! he teases u cos maybe he's afraid of his frndzzzzz...

Maybe his frndz dont like all this or stuff like that...

i think u should ask him urself on myspace!!!!!!!!

Why does he have to be like that!?

that is how boys are... my son is 13 and he reminds me of how my husband acted when we first met... boys feel the need to be macho in front of their buddies at school and you will have to get used to it cuz they all act that way. my husband still acts that way when his friends are around. good luck with him. btw... when he throws things at you he is really flirting. ;)

Why does he have to be like that!?

Guys have trouble with emotions. If he likes you, he's probably way embarrassed that some of his friends will find out or something, and he's expecting YOU to make a move because he's too shy. Shy? Yeah, he might not act shy, but right now he's afraid of facing his feelings because he's terrified of rejection. While it may be easier for him to flirt online, you have to be understanding and realize how hard it must be for him to admit that he likes you- especially in front of other people. He sounds a bit like a coward to me.

So you have three options. You can, A: Make the first move. Make him at ease by flirting and showing him that you are interested in him. This may help him to kind of come out of the closet and start acting more like he likes you.

Or, B: Wait. Talk to him but as no more than a friend. If he likes you, he's going to have to do something about it, and, well, if he doesn't, too bad.

Or, C: A little bit of both. Flirt, but don't be obvious. Act like you like him sometimes and other times be distant and far-away. He'll be s confused and driven to insanity that he'll just HAVE to ask you how you feel about him.

Why does he have to be like that!?

Maybe he doesnt know how to say it. Ask him why he's so different in school. I think you answered your own question when you said that he was been immature. Just ask him about he's way of acting.

Why does he have to be like that!?

stop talking to him on the computrer and then see what he will do dont say nothing just dont answer and you are to young to here love ya from people other then sibs and mom and dad see what happens and hope then spit wades dont get bigger to me he's has a problem you dont need at 14 good luck

Why does he have to be like that!?

There is only one way to find out, ask him when he is on MySpace. My guess is that he is kind of shy. Just remember that guys are always less mature than girls.