Ladies, is she acting like this because she is still looking?

Been together 5 months:

She TOLD me a guy who she knows on myspace asked her to the movies. She said no and he finally saw my comments on her page and her relationship status and asked if I am her bf. She said yes.

I comment on her myspace I love you and she doesn't comment back unless I ask her why she didn't comment back. She has no problem saying I love you in person.

We are out rollerblading and she sees this guy and falls back a little and GAWKS at him. I had to call her name to get her to snap out of it. She kept turning to look at him for the first 15 minutes there.

We where out and she was rubbing my arm in a flirty way and this other guy turned and looked at her (she is hot) and she suddenly let go. First time in 5 months this has happened.

Mixed signals here, seems as though when she gets asked out she says no, but on one occasion while we where out she was gawking at another guy and took her arm off me when another looked at her...

Ladies, is she acting like this because she is still looking?

most people who use Myspace are young. this means that the 2 of you are dating. a 5 month relationship is not the same as a 25 yr marriage. be reasonable and accept that she is not ready for a serious relationship. this way, you will be less disappointed when she dates another guy.

Ladies, is she acting like this because she is still looking?

Well, saying "I love you" is a serious thing, i can't blame her for not saying it over myspace.

Ladies, is she acting like this because she is still looking?

forget her shes still looking

Ladies, is she acting like this because she is still looking?

honestly...you can't defend your girl from other guys. just act like you dont care, be super confident. If she doesn't want you it wont be the other guys that causes the problem...but if she does want you and you get all jealous/overbearing, thats not attractive to her and she will drop you. Lay the pipe good!

Ladies, is she acting like this because she is still looking?

Ask if you two are dating exclusively, if she answers yes then you have a reason to be upset about these situations.

Ladies, is she acting like this because she is still looking?

she is only but a woman ,and once in a while we get side tracked by gorgeous men hey dont get too insecure it would be a really terrible thing to be jealous or to even think that you own her and that she could no longer look at other guys.cause you yourself still has the right to do so, youre not even married,.

Ladies, is she acting like this because she is still looking?

wow i feel bad for you. this shows that she isnt serious about the relationship. maybe you should give her a break so that she can realize what the consequenses are for her actions and hopefully this will show her how much you mean to her and then she wont be so intrested in other men because im in a relation ship and i NEVER do that because im just not intrested in other men so sit down and have a talk with her. BEFORE sh cheats on you if she hasnt already.

Ladies, is she acting like this because she is still looking?

i guess she may ne trying to make u jealous or either,, she doesnt like showing commitment in front of other guys.. she still wants to be "open".. now if ppl dont know that u are her bf they will still kepp gawking at her.. she wants that .. hence she behaves distant in public places.. y dont u just try lookin at some gal while she's talkin to u... i think tat will send the message across

Ladies, is she acting like this because she is still looking?

5 months isn't that long to be together. I'd be careful, it does sound like she's still "shopping."

Although, do you look at other women? B/c it's pretty normal to look and as long as she's not touching, I guess you have to trust her. Good luck!!

P.S. I've been married for 7 years and I point women out to my husband. I think if you're secure in your relationship you can do that and trust the other person. Doesn't really sound like you trust her.

Ladies, is she acting like this because she is still looking?

Ok. I had something very similar happen. I was doing the same things to my boyfriend. And I honestly, never even realized it. He cured me. BY GIVING ME A DOSE OF MY OWN MEDICINE. Back off with the messages. She will notice. Better yet, if you want a myspace battle. Move her down a little on your top friends list and replace it with friends and family. I know it is childish, but it got me to better understand how sometimes you take things for granted.

Ladies, is she acting like this because she is still looking?

Dear Tank2!

Your question depicts a quite normal situation but it seems that you are an emotional person, too. About the lady one thing is for sure that You are not able to completely understand what she actual wants from you or a man of her eyes! It seems that she has an extra sex desire level in her and you are not fulfilling her desires completely... So to the question, first try finding your mistakes in the relation with her and then look for weaknesses in you! I m sure if you tackle the Girl with technique she would never go anywhere else because you love her!!!