Thursday, December 24, 2009

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I know this might seem strange but, I met this guy on myspace and I really like him her really nice and hot! he tells me that if we lived closer he would wana hange out with me and stuf like that. I dont know what to do because I've herd all thous storrys about kids gitting killed and stuf like that if thay meat up with people on the internet but, What if hes the one???



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Yes, I would be very careful about this even if he is a really nice and normal, innoccent kind of guy. The stuff like child-knapping and killings and other things you might imagine and hear about really do happen even though it is usually quite rare.



It is just best to be safe rather than not. If I had children, i'd never allow them to chat with anyone on-line because of the dangers that are involved. There are a lot of dirty men out there and they are quite common and usually describe themselves as much younger than they really are.



I would just stick to chatting on here, but as far as boyfriends go, I would just wait for it to happen naturally or find boys in your area that you can get to know and meet in person because that way you can tell their age and what they look like and talk to them normally. So many people will tell lies over the internet sites and so you cannot tell the right ones from the wrong ones.



If he really is the one for you then the only way to find out is inviting him to dinner at your house where your parents are going to be there. Never arrange to meet alone with him as you need to be in a safe place and with people you know around you so that nothing can happen to you whilst you are with people.



If you have told him a lot of things about you and where you go to school or where you live, let someone know that you have been talking with this guy. You won't be in trouble for telling, but your parents will be very worried if you don't and something bad happens because you never told anyone. Let them know that you have met this boy on-line and that he wants to meet you.



It is better their telling you off than this guy who knows too much already about you and because you don't know him, I would certainly tell somone at home for your own safety. He is hopefully a really nice and normal guy, but never meet him alone and if he refuses to meet you at your house or with some friends, drop all contact information with him immediatley.



Don't want to frighten you, but don't want you getting caught up in something bad either, so do the right thing and tell your parents that you have been talking to him and that you want to meet him. They won't be angry about that, but they might if you arrange to meet him alone and he turns out to be something you didn't expect.



I wish you luck and hope that you can get something arranged to meet him and that you and he really make good friends.



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Trust me, he's NOT the one. Listen to the stories you hear - there's a lesson to learn.



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do a background check.....



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well if you MUST see and meet him do it during the day only! in a place like burger king,anywhere there are alot of people close by, and dont just meet in public once or twice meet till your sure hes ok



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Those horror stories didn't come out of nowhere. Are you sure this person isn't some wrinkly old man sitting in front of the computer posting his neighbour's son's picture on the internet? I wouldn't really go for it... but if you're like 99.9% percent sure.... i warn you, be VERY very careful



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NO NO don't go for it ///It is too dangerous don't do it/// just keep him as a friend or if you really want too have him checked out do a check on him its about 40 bucks on the net to run a check on him but don't put yourself in that predicament///



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Well there is only one way to find out, but then you might be dead.



Dont be stupid.



You are getting hung up on emotions. Get off the computer for a bit and hang out with some real people.



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I met my boyfriend online. We talked for about 6 months, both on the phone and online, before we talked about meeting. I flew to Washington to meet him, and we have been together ever since(2 years now). I would suggest, however, that if you are going to meet this person you should bring someone with you. You never know, he could be crazy. The stories you hear are true sometimes, so be careful. It also depends on his age. If you are like 15 and he is 18+ then don't go.



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Um...yeah there is a good idea...good luck with that one...



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hes not, you should look for someone closer and if he moves closer then you should give it a chance (or it could mean hes a pyscho)



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Go and find a local boy,NOT some1 you met on the net listen to all the stories don't be silly,there are plenty of fish in the sea.



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Don't meet people on the internet. Go to the bar or something.



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you won't be able to find that out.. but what I can say is that if you ever do plan on meeting him.. make sure it's in a public place.. I'd even bring a friend too keep it light hearted.. I've never done Internet dating etc..and all that stuff, but keep it safe that's all I have to say



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I don't think he is the one. Honey you will meet a thousand guys in your lifetime...you have such a long way to go. Dont rush into finding Mr. Right at such a young age. Enjoy the feelings that come with meeting new people and keep living your life and don't get sidetracked and stuck on the computer and live life in a fantasy land. Reality is outside your door. Make your life happen and you will get to know yourself, make a purpose for your life and then when timing is right, you'll meet your Mr. Right. Everyone waits for someone to "save them" or for something magic to happen and think life will be perfect from that moment on. I can tell you it aint so. Life doesn't work that way. Sure people can make a go of relationshipss but would you really want to sacrifice so much? You don't even know if this person is really who/what they say they are, or that they would be the same in reality once you've met. So don't spend so much time hooked on a fantasy. Just because someone has made you feel worthy doesn't mean you owe them your love and have to fall in love with them. You can love them...the heart is a big thing and there is plenty of room to love many people...but don't fall into some kind of false love where you pine away and forget to keep living in the here and now.



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Should you ever decide to meet anyone off the net make sure you meet in a public location, tell someone where your going and when your returning. Don't let him pick you up or see what kind of car you drive. Take a cell phone and have someone call you at an arranged time. Let them know that if you don't answer, something might be wrong. A can of pepper spray is good to have as well. Take care and be careful.



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I would not take the risk. He might be telling the truth but it is safer to never meet him than to meet him and get killed. God would not put you in the position where you met "the one" online. He wouldn't want you to have to choose between your life and a man.God loves you too much. If you are not a cristian I am very sorry.



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2 years ago i had this obsession with talking to people online and actually meeting up in person. i was aware of the possibilities of the worse case scenario, but it didnt really phase me. nothing happened to me really except for the fact that i was driving out everywhere just to meet up with some dude. i even thought that one guy was "the one". back then i was desperate to have "the one" in my life because i yearned it so much... but i was wrong.



before you jump to conclusions, definately re-think everything you know about him, his family, his whereabouts, etc before considering to meet this guy and make sure that its at a public place like a coffee shop.



goodluck.



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Please, Please, Please tell an adult you know and trust that you are talking to people on the internet. It is dangerous. Sick people prey on young trusting people. Don't become a statistic. If you really want to meet this kid arrange a meeting WITH your parents. I know it sounds lame but I would rather you be embarrassed than just plain gone.

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