Ready to Officially Move In Together?!?

I pretty much live with my boyfriend... I stay at his house every night... he is majorly girl crazy. He always tells me I have hot friends and once I found pictures from a friend's myspace ( she goes to school in a different state ) saved on his computer. * I deleted them cuz I was kinda weirded out ( and I think she would be too) but he has this idea in his head that all girls who go to school do stuff with other girls; girls gone wild style... Anyways I'll be 21 soon, he'll be 25. I am starting school this fall in a city that's about 2 hours away and it's known as a big College Party Town... He says he wants to move with me but i'm not sure if it's because he thinks he'll get lucky with my friends and I, or if he truely wants to be with me.

I love him and I want him to come with me but for the right reason. He's really a good guy except for this one flaw of, I don't know...perversion? which is kinda a big deal, or it could turn out to be a big deal...

Ready to Officially Move In Together?!?

Your problem is that you got him as a party girl and that is what he wants.

Unless you want to look for someone else, it is likely that you will get him through inertia, unless he has a lot of money, provided he moves in with you and then I guess you get pregnant after a couple of years.

The problem is that after about 18 months to 3 years romantic love wears off, but I do not think that he is in the romantic love stage, I think that he is in party mode.

I think you should get him to come to college, go to the parties and see what happens, but if you find him in bed with a co-ed do not be surprised.

Ready to Officially Move In Together?!?

maybe this is his way of signaling that he wants to experiment with both your sex lifes.maybe a threesome. talk to him about it if your up for experimenting. remember that communication is the key to a healthy relationship. so you need to talk to him about whatever is bothering you. dont hesitate because if you move in together and all this can cause trouble.

Ready to Officially Move In Together?!?

It doesn't sound like he is ready to commit the same way you are...if he moves with you it is probably to be with other "party women" and to try to get you in bed with him and other women at the same time. If you like that sort of thing and you want to be swingers go for it but if you want to have a normal, 2 person relationship with love, commitment, trust, honesty and one on one sex...don't do it. He just sounds like the kind of guy who is going to either cheat or try to get you to swing with other women and him.