GUYS!! how can u love and date a girl, but talk to others?

i've been wid my guy for over a year, and he loves me and tells me all the time. but on myspace he writes other women and tells them they are so hot, and what they would do with them, how far they would go...

what is this?! i mean is this normal!! it really friggen hurts me.

GUYS!! how can u love and date a girl, but talk to others?

Monogamy is not a natural state for guys. Women are just fine with it, by and large. But, biology and millions or years of human evolution have made guys non-monogamous.

Think of it this way. If you were only allowed to shop at Wal-mart, I doubt that you would be very happy. In fact, you might hate it. As a woman, you need and want to shop elsewhere.

However, a guy would be just fine with it. You can get everything you need at a Wal-Mart. Why would you need or want to shop anywhere else?

That is how monogamy is for guys. Don't take it personally. That's just how nature made us.

GUYS!! how can u love and date a girl, but talk to others?

What an azzwhole!

GUYS!! how can u love and date a girl, but talk to others?

Pretty much normal for a rogue so watch your step. I don't think he is as good as he pretends to be.

GUYS!! how can u love and date a girl, but talk to others?

Dont stand for that

would he let it go if you started to tell other fellas that they are hot and asking them how far they would go????

GUYS!! how can u love and date a girl, but talk to others?

You should tell him that it bothers you... if he really loves you then he'll stop!

GUYS!! how can u love and date a girl, but talk to others?

yes, it is normal. but, if it bothers you, find another guy.

guys always want more. every guy wants a girlfriend that will let see other girls. guy thing.

you could always write to guys and tell him about it.

the best defense is a good offense.

GUYS!! how can u love and date a girl, but talk to others?

I mean may be it is not what it seems! May be it is! You should trust him and let him know what would happen if he was cheating .

GUYS!! how can u love and date a girl, but talk to others?

well its ok to be friends with other girls but if he really loves you its not ok to give other girls comments telling them how hot they are..

GUYS!! how can u love and date a girl, but talk to others?

dump him he sounds like a cheater don't listen to his excuses get out of that emotional train wreck

GUYS!! how can u love and date a girl, but talk to others?

He sounds like a Crepe dump him! It is one thing to write girls on myspace and chat with them, but he crosses the line when he tells them what he would do with them!

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GUYS!! how can u love and date a girl, but talk to others?

That is not LOVE! If a guy would do anything that he knows may result in hurting you and still does it then he is not committed to the relationship! that is a sure sign that to him it is worth loosing you just to talk smack with another girl.....On the phone---email---text----in person---it is wrong. Tell him how you feel and then if he don't respect your feelings HE is not what you want for yourself. You'll just be putting yourself through all this for what...Best of luck to you!!!

GUYS!! how can u love and date a girl, but talk to others?

listen i think he's likes you but now there are other girls that he think are hot but don't do anything now,if he's saying things like i love you to them or other love things. then i say to u good luck your gonna need it!!

GUYS!! how can u love and date a girl, but talk to others?

Is he between the ages of 6 and 10? Then he is looking for more friends to join you.

Is he between the ages of 11 and 14? Then he is with you and just 'getting off' at the keyboard.

Is he between the ages of 15 and 19? Then he is with you to get in your pants and looking to get into someone else's pants too...

Is he between the ages of 19 and 23? Then he is with you for the fun sex and looking for someone else to have fun sex with too.

Is he between the ages of 23 and 30? Then he is with you cause he loves you but will probably leave for someone else.

Is he between the ages of 30 and 40? Then he is with you and bored of your sex life - seek counselling for both of you.

Is he between the ages of 40 and 50? Then he is with you and just 'getting off' at the keyboard.

Is he between the ages of 51 and 90? Then he is with you.... ;)

GUYS!! how can u love and date a girl, but talk to others?

I know how you feel! Except mine actually meet a whore real close and slept with her... in my apartment! He told me I didn't trust him and that I should let him go hang out with her and her friends and give her step-dad a going away to Iraq party! Well I told him to be back by a certain time... and I left b/c my best friend called and said she needed me for a few hours! Well it ended up being the whole night... she cried over a stupid boy! Well when he finally came and got me (he had to take a shower and take her home... blah blah blah) So it took him 2 hours instead of 30 minutes! And then I found out he screwed her... was writing her through myspace... which is where he found her! (I mean she found him.. he was in a band and she "loved" it) He would hook up the web cam and do nasty crap! And while I was in the other room! I would always make out with him if I saw it was her! And she'd look pissed! Then when I came home one day she was here! I kicked her a$$ and then his! He told me he didn't love me anymore... and then she and me left him! B/c he was lying to both of us! But then her stupid a$$ came back! When I was there getting my stuff! So I kicked her A$$ again! She was really stupid! Then a few months later he called me crying and telling me he was so stupid... I had lost our baby b/c of him putting me through so much stuff! And he called when someone had finally told him! Crying and saying how stupid he was and that he wanted me back! Well I told him no... but I'd love to be his friend and hang out! A few months later he asked me to marry him and give him 5 wonderful children... I said no! He started crying and went into his room and didn't come back out! So I left! The next month he asked again! And then everyday after that until I finally thought He'd changed and really loved me! And I told him yes! But if he hurt me like he did again~! I'd never speak to him again! I'm best friends with his twin sisters and would talk to them and his parents (even though I hate his mom)... but never him! And that I would never see him... like if I knew where he was living, then I'd never go to that town ever again! He's changed... I couldn't believe it! But he did... and I'm 2 months pregnant!!!!!