Thursday, December 24, 2009

Been confused on my sexuality.?

I've been bouncing back and forth between bisexual and lesbian and sometimes, I'm like "Woahhh, she's HOT." Like physical attraction, you know? And there's this really hot girl and I decided to try to talk to her through myspace and while I waited for her reply, I started to get this bad feeling inside of me. It feels really HARD (in my chest/kinda in my tummy). She finally commented back and my pictures too. I was like "Yess" but that feeling is there, hardcore.... what is that feeling??



Been confused on my sexuality.?

The feeling of being rejected.



Been confused on my sexuality.?

nervousness. You're probally hoping she won't reject you, or its just anxiousness for her to reply back.



Been confused on my sexuality.?

feeling abit nervous maybe?



Been confused on my sexuality.?

your gay, period, a lesbian,



"bi" is b.s. Nothing more than an excuse for people who want to sleep around with anyone and everyone.



you're either gay or straight, period!



Been confused on my sexuality.?

mabye your scared on what people will think of you.



you defiantly like girls...



to find out what you are, think about it HARD...do you like guys..then you will find out the answer if you are lesbian or bi.



good luck!



Been confused on my sexuality.?

Well it could either be doubt about your sexual persuasion but it can also be a feeling related to the person you are talking to. Its okay to be confused, but make sure your instincts are not warning you about this person rather.



Been confused on my sexuality.?

Sounds like your have second thoughts



Second thought pain i guess if you can have guilt pain u can have second thought pain



Say ur bi and girls will like u and if u really like a guy he will like you



Been confused on my sexuality.?

There is a difference between being physically attracted to someone of the same sex and actually being able to be in a relationship with him/her. You are probably having those feelings because you feel like the way you've been feeling is wrong, or that the girl you've contacted wont feel the same way about you.



Been confused on my sexuality.?

Ooh, I think I get that feeling, too. Like excitement, anticipation and terror all at the same time, in my gut. Always when I'm waiting to see what someone is going to say. It's freaky, but it's like gone when the person says something to you, (unless it's bad.)



But, yeah, I know how you feel.



Been confused on my sexuality.?

I can see you are confused..



Only you kno what that feeling is..



Been confused on my sexuality.?

U should see a doc ;)



Been confused on my sexuality.?

Butterfies?



Been confused on my sexuality.?

You can have sexual feelings toward the same sex but it doesn't mean your gay, you have a very active sex drive and have got to learn to control it rather that just "going with it" many clowns here will tell to go with it, be free and other B.S. but the first step to true freedom is to learn to control yourself rather than to be an animal running on instincts, don't dwell on sexuality otherwise you will be doomed to be a puppet of your wants or a chimp who walks upright.



Been confused on my sexuality.?

It is sour grapes. Your pysically attracted to women, but not emotionally attracted to them. The idea kind of sickens you, but your body betrays you. When you do something you think is really wrong you feel anxiety. Your chest feels tight and your stomach feels nauseas. There are a lot of things that turn me on, but only a few that I feel comfortable doing.



Hope this helps. You either have to learn to accept your attraction and overcome the stress or the easier route is to deny your self the physical attraction and just leave that as a longing that remains unfulfilled. However, you might actually date a guy and invite a female to participate so that it isn't just for you. Mob mentality will allow you to get past the anxiety that you feel. It is just easier to say screw it and date guys though.

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